Please Welcome: Presiding Bishop ++Katharine To Visit Feb 3!!

This is huge, HUGE news for St Nicholas: we’ve been informed that on her upcoming visit to Chicago, Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori will not only visit us, she will preside at the service! We will hold 1 service on Sunday, February 3, at 9:00 am. This will be the last Sunday of Epiphany, and Shrove Monday (and Fat Tuesday) follow immediately. Then, we will go into Lent with humility and hope (and fully charged spiritual batteries).

Presiding Bishop ++Katharine will be in Chicago for the consecration of our new bishop, +Jeffrey Lee, but is taking time from her busy schedule to be with us that Sunday. We’re over the moon at the news!

Here is some information from her website:

Welcome

katharine.jpg Shalom! The Episcopal Church welcomes the Most Rev. Dr. Katharine Jefferts Schori, previously Bishop of Nevada, as our twenty-sixth Presiding Bishop. She is chief pastor to the Episcopal Church’s 2.4 million members in 16 countries and 110 dioceses, ecumenical officer, and primate, joining leaders of the other 38 Anglican Provinces in consultation for global good and reconciliation. Jefferts Schori was elected at the 75th General Convention on June 18, 2006 and invested at Washington National Cathedral on November 4, 2006.

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One Bread One Body Sunday December 16

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“As we come to experience the erotic as sacred,
we begin to know ourselves as holy and to imagine
ourselves sharing in the creation of one another
and of our common well-being . . . “
-the Rev. Carter Heyward

S u n d a y S c h e d u l e

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9 a.m. — Worship
10 – Ministry Teams Sunday
11 — Worship

Christmas flowers

. We encourage you at both Christmas and Easter to bring flowers to decorate the church. Poinsettias are, of course, especially appropriate for Christmas, but flowers of all varieties help us celebrate the Incarnation of God as human flesh. Index cards to indicate in whose memory or thanksgiving the flowers are given are available at church.

Christmas giving

. You should soon receive a letter about Christmas giving. Please respond as generously as possible. Envelopes will also be available at the church.

Next Asbury Court liturgy

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This Saturday, December 15, St. Nicholas will be offering an Ecumenical Communion Service for all residents of Asbury Court at 10:30 am. This service will take place in the chapel area at Asbury Court, 1750 South Elmhurst Road (corner of Oakton and Elmhurst) in Des Plaines.

Whether you plan to have a leadership role in the service or just be with us, please join our Nurturing Team as we gather to sing Christmas carols, hear God’s saving word, pray for those in need, and celebrate Communion at God’s table. St. Nicholas plans to offer this and similar forms of worship at Asbury Court on a monthly basis.

Ministry Teams meet this Sunday

. Please consider coming early or staying late to join these meetings at 10 a.m. The ministry of our church is increasingly vibrant and can be more vibrant still as more of us become involved. There are four team meetings to choose from: Welcoming, Inviting, Generosity, and Nurturing.

Movable Feast

. It’s a four-month series of small group potlucks, offering us a chance to get know one another more deeply. Sign-up sheet is at church. Thanks to the Welcoming Team for organizing these events.

Seven icons to go: choose yours today

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After Christmas, we are going to add 10 icons of 12 women saints to the brick wall behind the statue of Mary.

But we need your help. The icons are $145 apiece. Rather than take $1450 from our budget, we are hoping folks will donate an icon – or portion of one. Two specific saints already have been “chosen” and the “last one left” is also spoken for, but we have seven more to go. Checks can be placed in the collection basket, with “icon” noted on the memo line. Thanks!

The icons we have chosen are Brigid and Darlughdach (a two-for-the-price-of-one deal!), Julian of Norwich, Mary Magdalene, the Syro-Phoenician woman, Dorothy Day, Joan of Arc (spoken for!), Edith Stein, Perpetua and Felicity (another two-for-the-price-of-one deal), Hildegaard of Bingen (spoken for!), and Teresa of Avila.

Second Family ministry update and more about Christmas presents

. This year we are helping two families that were referred to us by the social worker at Clearmont School. The clothing we collected for five children has been delivered to them. We have also purchased winter coats and jeans for two children in another family with donations to our Second Family Ministry. Both families are very grateful for our assistance and send a big “Thank You” to all of you. One of the families that uses our food pantry has requested help with Christmas gifts this year. The children are a boy, age 13, a boy, age 7, and a girl, age 5. If you would like to donate a gift for these children, please mark it Second Family and bring it to church by Sunday, December 16.

One of our families also has requested additional jeans or pants for two boys, sizes 10 regular and 8 husky.

Christmas Schedule

. We will worship at 4 and 9 p.m. on Christmas Eve.

Food Pantry

. Help replenish the food pantry by bringing one or more non-perishable items each Sunday.

Bishop’s committee report

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Meeting of December 12, 2007
Present: Brouillette, O’Rourke, Jewett, Kalicki, Taylor, Martz
Absent: Borg, Martin

No official actions were taken. Items discussed included:

Timing of the annual meeting

Pastoral care visitations

Sunday homilies are available at http://www.onebreadonebody.org/homilies.htm

Help with Yummy Hour

. The Welcoming Team is seeking volunteers to help provide snacks for the social gatherings after both the 9 and 11 a.m. liturgies. We ask that the same person(s) cover both the 10 a.m. and noon gatherings. Set up snacks, regular and decaf coffee, and a pot of hot water for tea. Sugar, creamer, cups, napkins, and stirs are in the cabinets in the Gathering Space while coffee and coffee pots are in the kitchen. Let’s all get involved!

There is a sign up sheet in the church – AND you can sign up online by picking one of the available dates and emailing your choice to Manny: vanborg@sbcglobal.net

Here’s the schedule to choose from:

December 16 – volunteer in place

December 23 – volunteer in place

December 30

Schedule for the 10 a.m. hour

Our schedule for the 10 a.m. hour is:
First Sunday of the month – Celebration Sunday; the 10 a.m. hour will be devoted to connecting.
Second Sunday – The Celebrating our Anglicanism series will now meet on this Sunday.
Third Sunday – Ministry Teams will meet on this day instead of on the Fourth Sunday.
Fourth Sunday – The series on major figures of the Hebrew Scriptures will meet one Sunday per month instead of two.

One bread, one body: the postmodern parish

(a note from Father Steve).

Recently I received an invitation to be a candidate for rector at a church. These invitations come periodically, generated usually by a computer in New York that matches my skills with those desired by churches seeking a priest.

Although I am not at all disposed to leave St. Nicholas – the fun has just begun! — I try to react prayerfully to each invitation, asking whether the Holy Spirit may have something different in mind for me than I have in mind for myself.

Sometimes, these letters come with essay questions like those many of us saw answered by the candidates for bishop. Typically, these questions are routine and predictable, and make my discernment simple. But this recent invitation contained two questions that caught my attention, including this one:

Describe the mission and ministry of the twenty-first century, postmodern parish.

That alone nearly convinced me to apply! Why? Because so few churches, especially in our Diocese, have comprehended that this is probably the most critical question facing institutional religion. It is — thank God! — something that is squarely before the leadership here at St. Nicholas.

Historic Christianity, including historic Anglicanism, is dying and this makes Christians – choose one – prone to a) become depressed b) engage in fantasy, or c) be excited.

a) There are lots of churches that are depressed and de-energized. Holding on for dear life, they mostly look inward and seldom have energy for meaningful mission. We’ve been there.

b) Others deny the obvious and go on as if nothing is wrong, doing things “the way we’ve always done them” and often engaging in lovely rituals while wondering why more people don’t join them — especially people that look like they do and think like they do. We’ve been there.

c) Some, but in my view not enough, churches actually recognize that Christianity is in crisis and find this exciting, for it challenges us in our own spirituality and challenges us as a congregation to become clear about what we, as the body of Christ, are called to offer the world.

Certainly one response we at St. Nicholas are making to the death of historic Christianity is to revision the body of Christ, insisting that all belong in the community, especially those who have felt unwelcome, and one role we have is to celebrate all people.

This is important, and something we will continue and expand, but the larger question is: what we do with and for those coming to us, as well as those who have been here longer? Obviously, the foundation is Sunday worship, and we are doing a good job of offering lively, strong, and meaningful worship.

The fundamental challenge for the postmodern parish is to become a place that truly cultivates the inner life. Christianity at its zenith was a powerful symbol system in which people found life’s meaning. But for many, this no longer works.

Our western materialist culture is no longer able to nurture a rich inner life and, in a stunning irony, neither are most churches. We’ve lost touch with the very quality that should define us – and many of us run around like crazy trying to replace it with something new that will define us.

So we hire church growth and church systems “gurus,” adopt finely focused mission statements, and look to entrepreneurial clergy for salvation – all to save us from death. The paradox of course is that “Christianity” needs to die before a living faith can be born anew.

The most successful churches – in terms of numbers – in our time are the megachurches. But they are a product of the culture more than of Christian tradition, and are even more clueless than the mainstream churches when it comes to the Christian spiritual legacy and its mystical practices.

Yet the challenge before us is not all that complicated. The postmodern parish ought to begin with the recognition that the human psyche is deeply religious, and set about caring for it. In dreams and in other forms, the psyche, or soul, is constantly producing the prima material of a rich inner life, forever providing us with “religion” and “spirituality.”

We will be talking in the coming months and years about how we go about doing this at St. Nicholas. It is certainly at this stage of my vocation the chief passion I have as a priest.

I also would love to hear from others of you what you think is the shape of the postmodern parish. For the shape of our postmodern parish will not come solely from my vision, but from our combined wisdom and visions.

Lots of love,

Steve

Our schedule this week

Sunday, December 16

Worship at 9 & 11 a.m.
Ministry Teams meet today
AA meets at 7:30 p.m.

Monday

AA meets at noon
AA meets at 7 p.m.

Tuesday

AA meets at noon
AA meets at 7 p.m.

Wednesday

AA meets at noon
Choir meets at 7 p.m.
Food Pantry at 6:30

Thursday

AA meets at noon
GA meets at 7 p.m.

Friday

AA meets at noon
AA Holiday Party, 6:30-10:30 p.m. – parishioners invited

Saturday

AA meets at 1 p.m.
AA meets at 8:30 p.m.

Sunday, December 23

Worship at 9 & 11
Decorating of church for Christmas follows 11 a.m. liturgy

One Bread, One Body Sunday December 2 (Advent I)

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Whoever finds Jesus hidden in the creative forces of the earth
will be held up in the maternal arms of Earth itself
to see the face of God.
Whoever finds Jesus hidden in the forces of the earth
that lead to death, when he dies
will be held up by the maternal arms of Earth itself
and wake in the bosom of God. — Teilhard de Chardin

S u n d a y S c h e d u l e:

9 a.m. — Worship
10 – Celebration Sunday
11 — Worship

Christmas giving at St. Nicholas.

There are three important ways you can give at Christmas.

  1. Christmas presents for children served by the Northwest Community Family Health Center – and also by our own Second Family program (see announcements below).
  2. Cash gifts to the church at Christmas and Easter are an important source of revenue that help fund our ministry.
  3. Christmas Eve flowers. We encourage you at both Christmas and Easter to bring flowers to decorate the church. Poinsettias are, of course, especially appropriate for Christmas, but flowers of all varieties help us celebrate the Incarnation of God as human flesh. Index cards to indicate in whose memory or thanksgiving the flowers are given are available at church.

From the Generosity Team…

Our heartfelt thanks to all who have turned in pledge forms for 2008. We are humbled by the generosity shown. To date, we have 7 brand new pledges and the average increase for repeat pledges is just over 20%! If you have not yet turned in your pledge form, please do so as soon as possible. There are extra forms on the table at the entrance to the church. If you are new to St. Nick’s or to the Episcopal Church and have questions about pledging, feel free to speak to any of the Generosity Team members: Cyndi Beck, Mary Beth Jarvis, Bob Kalicki, Mary Anne O’Rourke, Douglas VanHouten or Heather Voss. Thanks again!

Schedule for the 10 a.m. hour

Our new schedule for the 10 a.m. hour is:
First Sunday of the month – Celebration Sunday; the 10 a.m. hour will be devoted to connecting.
Second Sunday – The Celebrating our Anglican Heritage series will now meet on this Sunday.
Third Sunday – Ministry Teams will meet on this day instead of on the Fourth Sunday.
Fourth Sunday – The series on major figures of the Hebrew Scriptures will meet one Sunday per month instead of two.

The BVM is moving (and you can help surround her with a few friends)

One challenge of blending our two parish families has been finding an appropriate home for the wonderful statue of Mary which comes from Holy Innocents. Her present location in the southeast corner of the church was chosen for its proximity to the font, probably the premier focal point in our worship space. But the location has posed two problems. One is that she seems too far away from most of us. The other is that the kneeler that goes with her crowds up against a row of chairs, making it difficult for those who wish to pray to Mary.

Not to worry. During Advent, she will move to her new home on the west brick wall near the entrance to the worship space. And to keep her company – and help us honor the role of women in the church – numerous women saints will be joining her after Christmas, when we place their icons on the wall behind her.

We’ve chosen icons that will represent something of the diversity of women saints within the church. There are some old standbys – Mary Magdalene, Julian of Norwich, Perpetua and Felicity (early martyrs), Teresa of Avila. And there are some surprises – Brigid and Darlughlach, Edith Stein, Dorothy Day.

Here’s where you can help. This is going to be close to a $1500 project – 10 larger icons at $145 apiece. Rather than take it from our budget, we are hoping folks will donate an icon – or portion of one. Checks can be placed in the collection basket, with “icon” noted on the memo line. Thanks!

Information about the saints chosen will be available in church.

Advent in our parish.

As most of us know, we rearrange the worship space according to liturgical seasons, and Advent brings a shift from our familiar theatrical staging of the space to a more ancient “choir-stall” arrangement that evokes centuries of nuns and monks at prayer. We also will see a lot of Advent blue appear this week, easing our entry into Advent’s mood of patient, expectant waiting.

Last year’s Advent wreath is back, along with a tradition of “constructing” it ourselves, by placing pine boughs in it on the First Sunday of Advent. Mary and the choir also have been hard at work on Advent and Christmas music, and this year promises wonderful musical fare.

December of course also brings the feasts of Nicholas and the Holy Innocents. We’ll celebrate Nicholas on December 9 and the Holy Innocents on December 30.

“Bagging” collection for Christmas presents December 2 and 9.

We’ll repeat our bagging efforts in a different neighborhood – on the first two Sundays in December as we collect Christmas presents for the children served by the Northwest Community Family Health Center. This is a change from our original plan. We had been planning to bag this Sunday, with collection on December 2, but decided to give folks a week’s rest.

Your Christmas presents also help

– part 1. While we are relying on our neighbors to make this Christmas effort a smashing success again this year, we also are hoping our parishioners will respond generously by bring an unwrapped toy on December 2 or 9.

Second Family Ministry update and Christmas presents

– part 2. This year we are helping two families that were referred to us by the social worker at Clearmont School. The clothing we collected for five children has been delivered to them. We have also purchased winter coats and jeans for two children in another family with donations to our Second Family Ministry. Both families are very grateful for our assistance and send a big “Thank You” to all of you. One of the families that uses our food pantry has requested help with Christmas gifts this year. The children are a boy, age 13; a boy, age 7; and a girl, age 5. If you would like to donate a gift for these children, please mark it Second Family and bring it to church by Sunday, December 16.

One of our families also has requested additional jeans or pants for two boys, sizes 10 regular and 8 husky.

New film reconciles the Bible and homosexuality

A new film examines Scripture and the experience of gay and lesbian people through the insights of five American Christian families, including one family who are friends of our own Anna Stefaniak and Denise Butera. The film also includes interviews with noted figures including Bishops Desmond Tutu and Gene Robinson.

For the Bible Tells Me So is currently being screened through Thursday December 6 at the Music Box Theatre, 3733 N. Southport Avenue, two blocks south of Irving Park Road. For show times call the theatre at ((773) 871-6604. Bishop Persell attended a screening of the film and highly recommends it to members of the diocese.

Christmas Schedule.

We will worship at 4 and 9 p.m. on Christmas Eve.

Can you help Pat get to church?

Pat Sikora, a former parishioner, has moved into Elk Grove Village and would like to resume attending St. Nicholas. However, Pat had a leg amputated several years back and does not drive. If you can help, let Steve know at 630.476.6425 or onebreadonebody@sbcglobal.net

Food Pantry.

Help replenish the food pantry by bringing one or more non-perishable items each Sunday.

Bishop’s committee report.

Meeting of November 28, 2007
Present: Borg, Brouillette, O’Rourke, Martin, Kalicki, Taylor, Martz
Absent: Jewett

One official action was taken, as we approved unanimously a 3.5 per cent increase in our diocesan pledge during 2008.

Other items discussed were:

The youth/young adults outing to Nashotah House has been reschedule to February 9.

The visit of a United Thank Offering representative to St. Nicholas on December 16.

Going ahead with the purchase of book racks for some of the chairs, so they can be used for the choir in place of the present pews.

We agreed by consensus to begin an observance of a special liturgical celebration of people of color. This will be on a Sunday near Martin Luther King’s birthday and is part of our observance of several special Sundays during the year. This began with our celebration of Recovery Sunday in September and will also include an LGBT celebration later in 2008. Special celebrations of women, men, and children also will be added during the 2008-09 program year.

We scheduled a bishop’s committee mini-retreat for Sunday, January 27.

We spoke of setting up several retreats for preachers during 2008 and 2009.

We scheduled our next “baggings” for April 6-13 and May 4-11. (Yes, we know the 11th is Mothers’ Day.)

The selection of icons for the wall behind our Mary statue was agreed upon by consensus.

The preaching and liturgical ministry schedule for upcoming months was distributed, and there were some minor adjustments.

There was a lengthy and quite positive discussion of the difficult developments with Bishop & Trustees regarding the building addition. We concluded that we must plan as if the building will not be completed in time for the beginning of the 2008-09 program year. From there we concluded we could not enter another program year without sufficient program space and agreed the vicarage represented the best available option. Hence, we will request it be taken off the market for the time being and, beginning in September 2008, we will plan to use it for programming until such time as the addition is completed. We also agreed that we will actively seek builders to bid on the construction project, and are confident we can locate one who will construct it for less than the present builder.

Sunday homilies are available at http://www.onebreadonebody.org/homilies.htm

Help with Yummy Hour.

The Welcoming Team is seeking volunteers to help provide snacks for the social gatherings after both the 9 and 11 a.m. liturgies. We ask that the same person(s) cover both the 10 a.m. and noon gatherings. Set up snacks, regular and decaf coffee, and a pot of hot water for tea. Sugar, creamer, cups, napkins, and stirs are in the cabinets in the Gathering Space while coffee and coffee pots are in the kitchen. Let’s all get involved!

There is a sign up sheet in the church – AND you can sign up online by picking one of the available dates and emailing your choice to Manny: vanborg@sbcglobal.net

Here’s the schedule to choose from:

December 9 – St. Nicholas Sunday

December 16 – volunteer in place

December 23 – volunteer in place

December 30

One bread, one body reflections: A building update.

From Father Steve:

At its November meeting, Bishop & Trustees reversed their Spring decision to pursue a “design-build” approach to our addition and, while retaining the architect, voted to seek bids from other builders. They apparently concluded – as we have said all along — that the builder’s projected cost was too high.

In the “design—build” approach, an architect and builder agree to build the project for a set sum, and the contract for our addition was awarded on that basis. It is confusing that the builder now claims to be unable to meet that figure, after having been awarded a contract for claiming he would do so, and it is difficult to know fully what to make of this reversal.

We are disappointed at the further delay inherent in it. At the same time, a builder who will work more efficiently and economically is in our best interest. We already have spoken with one builder who is interested in bidding on the project, and we have other possibilities, too.

We are not confident, given this latest development, that we will have a building by the beginning of the 2008-09 program year. The failure to have adequate program space for a second consecutive program year would be a very serious obstacle to our continued growth. It is all the more disappointing because in 2007 we have done exactly what we told the bishop, the Congregations Commission, and B & T we would do: grow in attendance, finances, and most importantly, spiritual depth and mission outreach.

The bishop’s committee will ask B & T to take the vicarage off the market, so we can use it for critically needed program space until such time as an adequate addition is complete. Our goal remains to double our size in five to seven years after the addition is complete. This is a bold goal, and we know that we can achieve it only in true partnership with B & T and the Congregations Commission.

We are grateful to Bishop Persell, the Congregations Commission, and diocesan staff members for their strong support. We hope B & T will be able to live more fully into a similar commitment, a commitment they have voiced.

All of us in this congregation’s leadership are frustrated by the delay, which in our view was not necessary. We know that the human dimension of the church sometimes makes things more complicated than they should be. Yet we also trust the divine dimension of the church and believe God will bring us good news as we bring others the Good News.

Lots of love,

Steve

Our schedule this week

Sunday, December 2

Worship at 9 & 11 a.m.
Today is our monthly Celebration Sunday
Bagging for Christmas gifts after each liturgy – we need your help
Formation for all ages at 10
AA meets at 7:30 p.m.

Monday

AA meets at noon
AA meets at 7 p.m.

Tuesday

AA meets at noon
AA meets at 7 p.m.

Wednesday

AA meets at noon
Choir meets at 7 p.m.

Thursday

AA meets at noon
GA meets at 7 p.m.

Friday

AA meets at noon

Saturday

AA meets at 1 p.m.
AA meets at 8:30 p.m.

Sunday, December 9

CELEBRATION OF THE FEAST OF ST. NICHOLAS
Worship at 9 & 11
Celebration Sunday – 10 a.m. hour is a time to connect and build community
“Bagging” collection – please help